A Healthy Attitude + 100 Problems = Guaranteed SUCCESS.
An Unhealthy Attitude + 100 Supports = Definite Failure.
Acceptance of the reality of any situation is a prerequisite for any desired result to be achieved. Acceptance also means that we accept each other, as we are, without imposing any preconditions whatsoever, and then make earnest attempts to grow together from there.
When we desire to change in others, we must realize how difficult it is to bring about change in ourselves. Only if the other person accepts you as a well wisher, he would be willing to listen to your advice and then bring about change in himself. As we grow older, our physical strength gets depleted.
We must accept this as a reality, as a natural phenomenon, rather than continuing to complain about it. Each person has some admirable qualities and some undesirable ones too.
We must accept the cherished attributes and overlook the negatives in each person. All humans are imperfect. We must learn to accept sorrows of life as we accept pleasures. Learn to accept and understand that so many things are beyond our control, like the deaths of relatives and friends due to terminal sickness or other causes. Our non-acceptance of the reality only elevates the problem for ourselves and others.
Nature has made man and woman so different, as if they come from two different planets. A multitude of family problems and divorces can be avoided if a woman does not expect the man to like what she likes, and vice versa. Of course, there is no formula for success except, perhaps, an unconditional acceptance of life and what it brings.
Dr. Singh
http://www.drsinghbooks.com/
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